We have 893 girls born for every 1,000
boys. We have crimes against women building up at the rate of 129% every year
and a conviction rate less than half of it. Bharat Mata ki Jai.
I’d like to relate an incident that occurred
during the days I was working in an IT company in Bangalore . After a weekend at home, I used to
return early Monday mornings by bus. These buses from Kerala usually reached at
dawn, around 5:30 or 6:00. Depending on the season, there might or might not be
daylight then.
One bright Monday morning, I got off at
Madiwala and was looking for an auto to take me to my hostel. An auto guy came
along and made the usual demands for a 1 and ½ fare. I agreed and got in. Soon,
the driver turned chatty. He asked me if I knew Kannada. I said no. He went on
anyway, talking endlessly and asking questions. I began to tense up, with every
cell of my body telling me that this guy was definitely not normal. I began
looking out of the auto, but there weren’t that many people about. I considered
jumping out, but it seemed risky. I was literally at my wits end.
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Eventually, the driver reached my
hostel, though he parked a little away. I jumped out, sweating, and handed him
the fare. But instead of receiving it, he got ready to come out and take off
his clothes!! He was saying something, but all I remember was dropping the
money on the road and running with my bags towards my hostel. I think I could
hear him shouting, ‘Madam, madam’ from behind. I couldn’t sleep for nearly a
week after that. To this day, I haven’t told my parents about this. When I
think about it now, I wish I had Smart Suraksha with me.
Smart Suraksha is an android app that can
help you in such situations. Press a button to trigger an alarm that will alert
5 of your pre-chosen contacts, and also capture your location, regardless of
whether you’ve enabled GPS or not.
Can this app stop an attacker from
attacking you? No, but it can help you escape, and get others to help you. Your
contacts will know you’re in danger and can immediately take action, if one is
not available, you have four more. You can save valuable evidence, like your
location, information about a car number or a person’s clothes, a nickname etc.
Any information will be of use to track down a criminal – it doesn’t matter
even if you got away, he can be arrested just for trying to attack you.
Here are a few scenarios where you can use
this app:
1. Like the one above. You’re in a
vehicle and like me, don’t want to risk enraging the driver by screaming,
especially if you’re not sure there is anyone to hear those screams.
2. You’re waiting at a bus stop or
similar place and you sense imminent danger or are all alone.
3. You’re working late and there’s
hardly anyone left in office.
4. Your car breaks down in the middle
of nowhere and it’s late. It’s even risky accepting help at this stage.
I believe that women have a certain
intuitive power that signals us when danger is near. Considering we live in
such a technological age, why don’t we combine both these strengths and ensure
our safety? Get the Smart Suraksha app installed in your phone right away and
empower yourselves. Bharat Ma ki betiyon ki Jai.
The thing women have yet to learn is nobody gives you power. You
just take it. ~Roseanne Barr
22 comments
Vow! That is a really cool app! Sorry about the incident in Bangalore.. way too many for us to say, right?
ReplyDeleteYou bet, Neelu. But this was one incident, where I could really have used the app. There's no doubt that every woman out there has horror stories far worse than this to recount.
DeleteNo part of India is safe actually... This application is really cool..
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Very true, Manjulika. Urban, Rural, day, night - anything can happen anywhere.
DeleteOMG..what a terrible thing to have happened!! :eek: It's actually saddening to see that even in this day and age we are not safe. :( This app is quite good, will use it. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteOh no, we'd think that with the media reaching everywhere, people are getting more and more aware. But what's happening around the country shows the opposite.
DeleteThat was so scary Fab! Glad you had the courage to run away. This app is definitely a must for every woman in India!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Swapna! It was scary!!!
DeleteReading this made me break out in a cold sweat!
ReplyDeleteThis post comes at an opportune time for me. I've been thinking about safety and have downloaded a few apps too. But I'm simply not satisfied with any of those. My phone is huge & I don't usually carry it in my hands as I have at least 2 bags to hold. Also, in tense situations, who knows if I'll remember which button to press! I have a whistle on a chain & I sometimes wear it around my neck when I'm feeling particularly insecure. But what I really want is a personal safety alarm. Do you know where we can get those in India?
I don't know, Poohkie. A whistle does seem like a good idea, along with pepper spray. Safetykart.com is a website that sells stuff like that, you could have a look there.
Deletesuch a nice app...will definitely tell about this to my girl friends in india! U have a new like on fb!
ReplyDeleteThank you Rachna!! Do spread the word :-)
DeleteThanks Fab for sharing this info. I am definitely going to install this app.
ReplyDeleteYou're welcome, Nidhi! Please install it and let your friends know about it too.
DeleteThat is very nice app Fabida, no where in India is safe for girls.
ReplyDeleteTrue, Swathi - all the more reason for us to take steps to be safe!
DeleteNeed to download this one. Thank you for sharing this app!
ReplyDeleteYou're welcome, Pratibha!
DeleteSo sad that events like this one are far too common in India. The situation really seems to be worsening by the day. I have had such incidents in the past and yes we would never tell our parents/family because we don't want them to worry. Thanks for sharing the info. We do need to make things safer for women in this country.
ReplyDeleteThat's the problem! Many parents will worry though they can't do much about it, some might even stop their daughters from studying/working/going out.
DeleteSo sad that events like this one are far too common in India. The situation really seems to be worsening by the day. I have had such incidents in the past and yes we would never tell our parents/family because we don't want them to worry. Thanks for sharing the info. We do need to make things safer for women in this country.
ReplyDeleteTrue, Shefali!
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